Reasons why he didn’t reach out after hooking up with you

80 men told me what it means when a guy hasn’t reached out after having sex with a woman, here are the most common responses:

  1. They thought they were interested but only realized after the act that they were not

  2. They weren’t that interested to begin with

  3. They did not feel enough chemistry to continue exploring things

  4. Their only motive was to have sex - nothing more than that

  5. Their was no connection aside from physical attraction

  6. The sex or hook up wasn’t that good/ they have different sexual preferences

What's more painful? Physical or emotional cheating?

8 examples of emotional cheating

  • Engaging in behavior with another person which you know would hurt your partner/betray their trust.

  • Lowering boundaries of conversational intimacy to a new person.

  • Treating another person as if you were in a romantic relationship with them.

  • Insecure attention seeking behavior.

  • Having some sort of attraction for someone else and engaging in conversation that could jeopardize the relationship

  • Having genuine feelings for someone who isn’t your significant other and keeping them in your life.

  • Not being present in the relationship/checked out.

  • Having feelings other than physical attraction for someone other than your partner.