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Do guys care what a vagina looks like?

Do guys care what a vagina looks like?

A woman from our Instagram community asked this question below. In turn, 190+ men responded.

 
 

Unattainable beauty standards, photoshop/ filters and porn has put an insane amount of societal pressure on women; specifically on their bodies. Enough pressure for women to consider Labiaplasty. Labiaplasty is surgery performed to alter the appearance of the labia; most commonly performed to make one’s labia shorter/ smaller.

A note for the men reading this:
If you judge someone for something they cannot change about themselves - something they were likely born with, your lack of self-awareness is just as unattractive as your ignorant judgement. And if you’re one of the men who wrote or agree with any of the offensive responses below, you yourself better have a perfect physique, and penis: color, cut, length AND girth. But unfortunately, none of these physical attributes will make up for your lack of humility, intellect and basic respect.

Note #2
Something a lot of people fail to realize about sexual anatomy is that people are simply born different shapes and sizes. Men believe because a woman has a longer labia or because she’s “not as tight” as he’d expect, that she must be extremely sexually active or older. This is simply untrue. A woman can be sexually inexperienced and have a longer labia/ bigger vaginal opening/ circumference because of her genetics. So please get that senseless narrative out of your head.


Woo! Now that we got all that out of the way I can share the responses from 190+ men about this topic.

Summary:
The majority of men say they don’t care. But what they do care about is hygiene (smell/ hair maintenance).

190+ responses from men:

  1. Hair maintenance > Labia maintenance

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  2. Natural is best. Doctored is gross!

  3. I think we notice taste/smell more than anything lol 🤷🏽‍♂️

  4. Don’t notice 

  5. No lol

  6. ..same way women have preference of 🍆🌶🍤

  7. Yes we do, the bigger question is how do some girls not know their V smells funky.

  8. What…. Please don’t get surgery. We barely remember what we wore yesterday.

  9. I think as long as it’s not a jungle down there, they all look diff, and that’s okay.

  10. I love vaginas of all shapes and sizes

  11. I’ve never had this be an issue

  12. Yeah everyone looks different down there, some cuter than others but it’s doesn’t matter

  13. We don’t care.

  14. To a degree, hygiene is far more important.

  15. I STRONGLY prefer bigger lips. Actually disappointed when they’re small/nonexistent

  16. Yes and Yes 😂

  17. This is absolutely hilarious, I hope they are kidding

  18. Fixing stuff we don’t care about.

  19. Do not care. Pleased to be there!

  20. Some are much prettier than others I will say that, but I’ve never had one turn me off.

  21. Depends

  22. Oh my fucking god - no. Don’t do that all vjj are wonderful!!!

  23. What in the world

  24. I mean do women notice what a man’s penis is like??? 😂

  25. Notice, yes…care, not really. Some prettier than others but clean/well manicured is 🔑

  26. Stop.. ladies.. If your man don’t love you the way you are upgrade to a new man

  27. This seems to be more self consciousness than driven by men’s reactions imo

  28. We do unfortunately 

  29. Hell nah

  30. Nope. Unless it’s like to the point where skin gets pulled in during sex, not at all. Smell n taste matter more

  31. We notice but everyone's body is different to appraise them all, everyone’s beautiful!

  32. If it looks like a wizards sleeve then yeah otherwise no. Just make sure it doesn’t smell 😆

  33. Men don’t care. No ones turning down the seggs, especially when you’re that close

  34. There are definitely cute and ugly vaginas

  35. Not really… they’re all just a lil different

  36. Doesn’t really matter from my exp.

  37. If they love you they literally won’t care

  38. Not at all

  39. How old are these people getting this procedure? After kids?

  40. All Vs are beautiful just the way they are

  41. There are plenty of acceptable variations, but we care.

  42. Nah not really. Just please be clean and healthy

  43. That’s kind of a dumb question… girls obviously care what a dudes dick looks like

  44. Def care lol

  45. If a man is lucky enough to get a look at a girl’s vagina he shouldn’t be thinking twice

  46. Men DON'T CARE about: what your cat looks like, lonjas, cellulite, flawed skin, etc

  47. Not unless it’s a problem for them. Dicks aren’t that appealing to look at either lol

  48. Do not care

  49. Duh we notice… sometimes it matters, other times not.

  50. Genital mutilation?

  51. There can be better looking ones but as long as personal hygiene is a 10 it doesn’t matter

  52. Would you need an example to base my opinion off. I would notice if it looks good so there’s that

  53. Probably one of the things we notice the most

  54. Fixing stuff we don’t care about.

  55. It don’t matter what it looks like. So long as clean and kept

  56. We do, but most of the time is doesn’t matter

  57. Notice? Yes. Care? 99% of the time no.

  58. NO

  59. It’s not like I have a perfect looking penis so it doesn’t matter

  60. We care 

  61. Don’t particularly care. Just has to feel good. :)

  62. Not at all

  63. I look and think wow like comfy

  64. I hope most men don’t care. Labiaplasty seems extreme but it’s her body her choice!

  65. I don’t think I’ve ever seen a vagina that looked bad.

  66. Not something that I particularly care about. How it feels is more important

  67. We notice, but at the same time, we really don’t care 🤷‍♂️

  68. Nope 

  69. Notice-yes/Care-no. It’s about who you are. And the connection between two ppl

  70. Don’t care what it looks like. As long as my dick fits in nicely

  71. Absolutely we notice, and generally don’t care…but still have our favorite types.

  72. No we don’t care

  73. Notice, don’t care

  74. Hellz no we don’t care. Quit with the plastic surgery already!

  75. Unless it’s super loose.

  76. As long as it isn’t scary lookin we good

  77. Do we notice, yes. Do we care, no. (my babe sent me to answer this in the name of science)

  78. Yes we notice. But as with everything, different men like different vaginas. I love big lips 😊

  79. We care more about the taste and less about the appearance.

  80. If we are close enough to see, we are good

  81. …with men generally it’s more about maintenance, for beauty is in the eyes of the beholder.

  82. Roughly I would say it’s 50/50

  83. Don’t care

  84. Again, might notice. But seriously (unless there’s something sketchy like medically) not bothered

  85. Don’t really care lol

  86. What? Why would a woman do this?? No.

  87. Not a bother. Everybody is different.

  88. Idk what you call it (outies?) but definitely prefer that to innies lol.. Everyone’s different

  89. Tbh some look better that others, but idc. Horrified 2 hear women r gettin plastic surgery!

  90. As long as my partner is comfortable, I don’t care one but!

  91. We notice 

  92. 😱 Please no! Y’all are beautiful just as is!

  93. 💯. Just saw my exes vjj after a few years of not, and it wasn’t as pretty as before. 🤞 🤐

  94. I don’t care what it looks like. There’s more to love and relationships than that

  95. Hell no we don’t care.

  96. Noticing and caring are two different things. Of course we notice. Won’t prevent sex though

  97. I literally do not care what a vagina looks like. I do not find that part of a woman attractive regardless.

  98. Yes

  99. Waste of money.

  100. A pretty looking labia definitely helps. I imagine a big, good looking dick helps? Same same.

  101. Yes, some pussies are just plain ugly, and some are fucking beautiful.

  102. No. As long as your vag doesn’t smell weird or have a 4’’ clitoris it doesn’t matter what it looks like.

  103. Love what they look like. I’m just happy to be a part of the ‘’conversation’’ lol

  104. To be brutally honest we notice smell and taste more than appearance.

  105. I’d be shocked if people legitimately cared.

  106. Yes we notice, but no we don’t care. They are all beautiful 😍

  107. We notice but don’t care (unless there is A LOT of visible labia which is a turnoff usually)

  108. For the most part no but respectfully there are a few who might

  109. Couldn't care less

  110. An absolutely unnecessary, ridiculous procedure

  111. All are beautiful

  112. Doesn’t matter, porn influences that stereotype

  113. It can’t be out of control loose

  114. It doesn’t matter

  115. We definitely notice, but care? Nah, not really. For the fboys it’s a point of conversation later

  116. Not the right move unless it’s really what you want. Your parts are fine as they are 😆

  117. We do notice but don’t care

  118. No, don’t care what they look like.

  119. No.  Save your money

  120. Do not care. Definitely do not care enough to go get surgery done.

  121. Don’t notice, don’t care. Body confidence is hot regardless of what it or any part looks like

  122. Of course we see it and no we don’t care. We LIKE them lmao

  123. Yep and nope

  124. Couldn’t care less

  125. Kinda hard not to notice. But most are just whatever lol. I’ve only seen a few I thought looked…”weird”

  126. Nope don’t check them out

  127. Do not care

  128. No we don’t 

  129. Not really

  130. Notice yes, care no

  131. Yes we notice. Don’t want it looking sloppy

  132. Men are very visual. Of course we notice

  133. Is it noticeable? Sure. Do we care? Nope

  134. Yes we notice

  135. Everyone has their preference. Not a big deal or worth surgery! Personality is key!

  136. This is ridiculous. Men aren’t getting dick surgery. Love your partner for who they are.

  137. Please. No vagina altering unless youre Binary or id as a fairy

  138. Yes I notice but don’t care.

  139. We care yes lol

  140. Yess. U can always tell when someone has high miles!! Too much use leaves big ass lips

  141. Notice? Yes. Care? Not really. Unless something is real off but even then usually no big deal

  142. I notice when they’re “cute” but don’t care otherwise. I haven’t seen anything gross yet

  143. Low key. Yes I notice and I probably shouldn’t care but I do. I don’t want one that looks beat up.

  144. I think everyone can appreciate pretty genitals but it’s not the be all or end all

  145. I couldn’t pick out my long-time gf’s vag in a crowd. Isn’t that why pornstars need tats?

  146. I’m hyper-observant, so I will notice, but I don’t care.

  147. Absolute waste just find the many that loves all of you.

  148. As long as the lips aren’t too big. I’m not bothered

  149. And! Some guys might even be more attracted to a bigger labia

  150. We like them all. I’ve never heard of a guy being turned off by how a girl’s bits looked.

  151. Never ever heard men even have a preference other thank available 💀. Woman’s media F

  152. As long as it doesn’t smell putrid, I’m golden

  153. Could care less unless there is something insane happening, which would expect a convo b4

  154. No be comfortable with who you are and men should respect that. Simple as that

  155. Absolutely not

  156. No we don’t care

  157. Yep definitely

  158. This question will hurt feelings. Nobody wants to eat something hanging down your leg 🤢

  159. I have a preference in the type of look I prefer, but would rarely be a dealbreaker

  160. Definitely notice, and again… No real man will care. Just bury your face in it and enjoy

  161. Nope. Keep the sharp objects away from the lady sandwich…

  162. I don’t understand that current trend, most vgs look perfectly unique

  163. Most guys do not care. They’re happy/content with being there in the first place. Lol

  164. I do notice and i think most guys do but i don’t it’s matters as much as hygiene and sensation

  165. Some do, just like women care whether a man is or isn’t circumcised.

  166. Yes we notice. No we don’t care … but we can tell that you do. Confidence is key !!!

  167. No not really

  168. I notice, and am fascinated! Just clean and a little maintained is enough!

  169. We don’t care and would you honestly want to be with a man who cares? Please don’t do it

  170. I think it’s normal to notice things but if you are into the person it doesn’t matter much

  171. Not at all. Every woman is beautiful in their own way.

  172. Single for 5 years and in my 30s now, I’ll take anything 😅😅

  173. Yes we do, there is such thing as an ugly vag and a nice looking vag!

  174. We notice but we don’t care lol. Who hurt y’all?

  175. Absolutely not

  176. Not at all, I think hygiene down there is far more important than looks lol

  177. Yeah but don’t care. We’re with a naked woman so we hit the Jack pot

  178. For sure

  179. Idek what that is^ but I definitely look at it get all up in it 😜😝😈

  180. I have never heard a man say “she had a weird looking vag” its all about her hygiene lol

  181. It does matter. Less so if there is love/commitment. “Kitty is kitty” men scare me. 😂

  182. Honestly don’t care - all about the fits and feeling

  183. Oh this will be a good one haha

  184. We notice. Don’t really care how it looks, but smell and taste we 100% care about

  185. Notice, yes. But if a guy actually likes you he won’t be shallow enough for it to matterI prefer longer labia! I imagine men like it all, but have preferences.

  186. It’s all pink on the inside 🤷‍♂️😂

  187. Yes we do we not just trying to get any monkey 😂 gotta get it looking nice

  188. Prefer natural , don’t get surgery it is beautiful naturally

  189. We definitely do. Just like you notice penis size. Please please please take care of your vaginas. Alot don’t

  190. Couldn’t care less and can’t picture one to this day

  191. Nope - just happy to be there 😂

  192. Be genuine when we kiss or give/get oral and we are turned on.

  193. Everyone’s is different and beautiful in its own right. We don’t care.

  194. Don’t care

  195. Nope not even something we care to look at

  196. All look different! Doesn’t matter

  197. Doesn’t matter, just stoked to be having sex 🤣

  198. Totally unnecessary

  199. Yes we care!!!!!! You don’t want it looking like calamari!

  200. To an extent, but if the vibes right no one cares….

  201. No

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