What Do You Get a Guy For Christmas?

As always, ask and you shall receive. I asked men what they would want to be gifted for Christmas, Birthdays or any other special occasion. Here are the most common responses (in order from most requested) that were submitted. I hope these help you create/ select a gift!

One thing to note: All these gift ideas really depend on how comfortable you are within your relationship and possibly how long you have been together. If you are just starting to date, I would likely gift them something a bit practical over something more sentimental unless your partnership has emotional depth!

Example: Practical — A nice shirt, joggers or hoodie from their favorite athletic brand. Sentimental — A scrapbook of memories and pictures of you two.

An Experience/ Trip Together

Ding ding ding! Most men want an experience or trip over material things. Would you have guessed that? I know it’s a bit more challenging considering we are in the middle of a pandemic and money might but a little tight but you can get crafty here!

A lot of men mentioned a day trip or a weekend get away. A quick day trip, self-made picnic with their favorite foods and drink, an adventure to a beach, hike, an underrated local destination or 1-2 hours from your town would be perfect. It’s the effort and planning that counts most here.

You can get some really good ideas for couples from Groupon.com. They have great deals on couples massages, wine, beer and liquor tastings, events, axe throwing, cooking classes, boat rentals AND weekend getaways!

Something Meaningful

Can you think back to when your partner has mentioned something they wanted or wanted to do? The most important thing here is the meaning/ thoughtfulness behind whatever you are gifting. It could have been a book they mentioned really wanting to read, a jersey/hat from of their favorite team, or a gift basket with their favorite candy/snacks, books, cologne, gift card, pictures of you together, a written letter, etc…

Here are somethings men said about a gift with meaning behind it": “Anything that shows thought behind it is better than anything materialistic.” “Something meaningful or has a memory with it.

Something to Compliment His Hobbies/ Goals/ Passions

What is your partner into or wanting to get into? A book, a course, art materials, golf stuff, weight lifting equipment, etc! Maybe they love gaming, you can do a little research and get them a new game of their preference or a game they’ve been talking about.

Blow Jobs

I’m not kidding. This was a very common response. So common I felt it necessary to put on here! Someone even said, “a book and a blow job”. A cute and cheeky way of “gifting” a little fellatio could be in the form of a “coupon” to redeem at their discretion. You could take it one step further and create a “coupon book” of massages and other cheeky things you can do to and with one another ;).

DM me if you want me to personally design a cheeky coupon book for you and your boo.

I hope these ideas helped with some inspo for your Holiday gifting. Thank you to all the men who submitted a gift idea!

Happy Holidays <3,
Stephanie

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