Welcome back for a round 3 😉. Just a heads up… There is a part 4 to this series because, why not? And yes, as always, it’s even juicier.

As a reminder, every question asked and answered were from people within our Instagram community. Thank you to everyone who voted/ responded!

Let’s begin:

How many men have had anal sex?

234 out of 347 men have had anal sex at one point in their life. Check out the data below to see how many men actually enjoy it.

Do men like anal sex?

50% of men enjoy(ed) anal sex.
30% of men sort of enjoy(ed) anal sex.
20% of men do not enjoy(ed) anal sex.

The majority of men enjoy(ed) anal sex. I’m not surprised, are you? I’ve never done anal— my grandmother said that’s a no-go zone and quite honestly, I just have no curiosity to explore that adventure as of right now. I think the majority of men enjoy anal sex because it’s a different, tighter(?) experience. I also believe that when there are no limits or boundaries during some sexual activities, there’s a certain feeling of sexual freedom that causes immense pleasure and satisfaction.

Are men open to dirty talk during the first hookup?

Though ‘dirty talk’ was never defined for this question, I am willing to bet the majority of men are open to words of affirmation/ guidance over actual ‘dirty talk’, at least during the first hookup.

An affirmation is ‘a statement intended to provide encouragement or motivation’. Just like us women, men LOVE compliments in the bedroom, or wherever else 😉. It serves as guidance on levels of enjoyment and pleasure. If you’re reassuring them that something feels/looks good, they’re going to want to do more of it.

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Do guys like it when girls squirt?

Ladies, I know that for some of us, this is involuntary, so please disregard the 24% of men who said they ‘don’t necessarily love it’. My guess is that 24% of men think this is too messy? Put down a towel or tell them to meet you in a shower?? Silly boys. Good news (if it applies), there are 259 out of 330 men who get super turned on by this. It’s likely because it’s extremely visual and undeniable —they likely feel a strong sense of accomplishment.

Tips for giving men oral sex:

Thank you to the woman who asked this question and God bless the men who gave us their advice & insight.

Listen close because 132 men submitted their preferences. Keep in mind that because over 100 men gave their input, there were a lot of common responses, but there were also contrasting submissions which further proves that not every partner is going to enjoy the same techniques.

This is why it’s important to have open dialogue about preferences and what feels good for all parties involved. It’s proven that communication between partners increases sexual satisfaction

I’ll be sharing the insight that was most commonly mentioned and a few responses that stood out.

• Use your hands

  This was the most common response. A good amount of these men said to use both hands. Another man said to consider your hand(s) as an extension of your mouth - well said. *Mental note* - *More hand action*

• Wetter is better

  One guy said oral sex for men isn’t that much different from women receiving it: “wet, warm, messy”. A lot of other guys mentioned “the sloppier the better”.

• Eye contact

  “Huge turn on”. I agree. Brave ladies, proceed.

• Enthusiasm/ effort/ excitement

  Imagine a partner going down on you and not knowing if they’re enjoying it or not, or maybe their lack of effort and enthusiasm completely kills the mood… Yikes.

• No teeth

  Softly wrap your lips around your teeth if you’re concerned about this situation.

• Twist/ circle your tongue on their tip

• Don’t forget about the ⚽️🏀⚾️🥎

  Check out this article to see the exact percentage of men who enjoy a solid ball game (lol).

Contrasting preferences among the submissions from 132 men:

“Consistency” — “Switch it up”
“Focus on the tip” — “Don’t forget about the base”
“Soft sucking” — “Aggressive suction”
“Gentle ball play — “Tugging”

You get the point — every partner is going to have different preferences. The best thing you can do is ASK WHAT FEELS BEST. Talking about preferences and desires with your partner is fun, rewarding and empowering!

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