WARNING: THIS ARTICLE IS NSFW.
Men asked, women answered.

What’s a woman’s weakness?

100 women responded to this question and they delivered. The most common responses were:

• Neck kissing (samesies 🙋🏼‍♀️)

• Ear kissing

• Booty grabs

• Inner thigh touching/ kissing

• Massages

• Dirty talk - read this article to see the top 2 things women want to hear during intimacy— you’re welcome.

Did you notice how each of these are foreplay related? In a different mini study I co-created with our Insta community, women responded to this question: what do women want men to do more of? 90% of the women who voted said men weren’t doing enough of or any foreplay. NINTEY PERCENT. NINE-ZERO. At this point, we’re on part 4 of this series and I don’t feel like explaining what foreplay is or how long it should be. Quite honestly, it will likely be different for different partners. A sure way to please your partner is to ask them what they enjoy/ are enjoying — ask and you shall receive!

What’s a woman’s favorite type of music to hookup to?

The most common response to this was R&B! Other women mentioned artists like The Weekend or music in the EDM genre. Some women said any background music or even Netflix (“anything but silence”). Personally, I don’t mind silence in terms of music vs. no music. But please don’t be a mute. Us women like to know that you’re enjoying yourself and a sure way of knowing this is IF YOU TELL US WHAT YOU’RE ENJOYING.

Related article: Sex tips for men from women.

When is it a good time to introduce sex toys?

52 women responded to this and naturally, there were a lot of different responses because this is a subjective question. A lot of women said “right away/ early on”, other women said “after a few months of sleeping together”.

Something I need all men to understand is this: 75% of women either CANNOT or RARELY achieve an orgasm without some sort of clitoral stimulation. That means only 25% of women can reach orgasm through regular penetration.

Toys might even be a necessity for the majority of women.

To men who genuinely want to please their partner and understand that toys are meant to enhance the experience; the answer to this question is simple. Bring this conversation up whenever you feel comfortable doing so. You can even ask your partner if they have a toy or if they’re curious about exploring one solo or together.

What are your fantasies you’re too afraid to tell your partner?

These were the most common responses from women (mentioned multiple times):

• Professional massage turns not-so professional

• Threesome with a girl

• Threesome with a guy

• Foursome with another couple

• Letting their partner have their way with them (submissive behavior)

• Thoughts about their partner hooking up with someone else

Do women like to deep throat during head?

One woman said: “Honestly, no. But with that being said, I still will”. It has nothing to do with our enjoyment aside from the fact that some women get turned on when we see you in pleasure we’re giving you.

Romance vs Kink, or both?

What does a kink or being kinky mean? Well, Google defines it as: “involving or given to unusual sexual behavior”. I feel personally attacked. Let’s check in with Urban Dictionary: Something relating to, having, or appealing to unconventional tastes especially in sex.

UNCONVENTIONAL? Please tell me why the majority of women (79%) enjoy some sort of kink? That doesn’t sound unconventional. That sounds pretty dang normal to me.

Kink can be anything from role playing, spanking, using toys such as cuffs, vibrators, or anything else to meant to enhance your experience with your partner. If you’ve read any of the articles in this series, you know I’m a huge advocate for communication in and out of an intimate setting. If you’re wanting to explore some kinks with your partner, ask them if x, y or z is something they’ve ever explored/ want to try together.

If your partner wanted to try some kink, do you want them to ask you or have them spontaneously do it?

The majority of women (61%) want you to ask them before introducing some kink. Granted this question wasn’t detailed in the sense of a specific kink so maybe these women were playing it safe here when they voted for “ask me”. Regardless, talking about things you’d like to try out with your partner could be a great way to build anticipation and intimacy 😉.

As always, THANK YOU to all the women who voted/ responded and to all the men who posed the questions!

Please DM me with any thoughts or feedback, I’d love to hear it all!

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Related Articles:
Sex tips for men part 1
Sex tips for men part 2
Sex tips for men part 3

xX,
Stephanie