Does size really matter?

June 19, 2021 Stephanie Daily

Did you know that only 25% of women can orgasm during penetrative sex? Which means that 75% of women need clitoral stimulation to reach orgasm.

A guy from our Insta community asked me if size or ‘motion of the ocean’ matters more. Check out what 200+ women said:

Based on 202 women who voted.

I’m going to be real fckn real here. Of course size matters. But it’s not just the size of the guy that matters here… her size matters too (circumference/ even depth).

If a shoe is way too big or way too small, can you comfortably wear it? Consider a girl to be the shoe and a guy the foot in this scenario. BOTH SIZES MATTER. One size does not fit all but I am happy to report that there is a right size for everyone.

The overwhelming majority (89%) of women said the ‘motion of the ocean’ matters more than the over all size, this is what they actually meant:

If a guy is REALLY big, REALLY small or even in-between, he HAS to know how to use it. The G-spot is on the roof of the vagina (upper part) at about 12 o’clock when the woman is lying on her back and it’s about 2.5-3 inches in the vagina. Ladies and gents, that’s your target.

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Do women prefer REALLY big penises?

Contrary to unrealistic pornography standards, the majority of women do NOT want a huge P in their V. They want to be able to feel something in them, but it doesn’t need to be a shlongaconda🐍. If you don’t believe me, check out the data below:

The question I asked women from our Insta community was this: Do you prefer a REALLY BIG penis size over all other sizes? I also mentioned that the above average size was considered to be 7.5” according to this article (BTW, 7.5” is really fckn big — I just measured it with a measuring tape 🤣).

Based on 316 women who voted.

Penis size may only matter for some women, and for certain types of orgasms. Remember above when I said only 25% of women can experience an orgasm through penetrative sex? The majority of women need clitoral stimuli, whether if that’s simultaneously during sex, or during foreplay. You can do this with your hands, tongue or a toy.

But please remember that the clit is a VERY sensitive area for women, no need to mash it like your Xbox controller.

The most important and rewarding thing you can do for mutual satisfaction is being open to giving and receiving feedback. One of the hottest things in my opinion is when a partner genuinely wants to please their partner. “Do you like this?”, “how does this feel?” or in the wise words of Tupac, “how do you want it?”. Once you begin to understand your partner’s anatomy and what they like, it’ll be easier to intuitively respond to their sexual needs.

Sex expert Emily Morse wrote:
”Some of us expect our partners to intuitively KNOW our sexual wants, but that’s rarely possible. Checking in during sex and letting your partner know when they’re doing something right leads to more pleasure, a deeper connection, and better communication in other areas of your life. It’s the 🔑 to sexual success.”

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xX,
Stephanie